How Far is Too Far?

Dear Heather, My girlfriend and I have gotten very close physically lately, even sexual a bit.  It's really great. We're in love in a deeper way than I've ever been with other girls. I want to make her happy.  I don't understand why people or God think this is wrong - for us to go further physically. The chastity message isn't making sense to me right now.

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