Sex

Hey Paul, I have a question concerning chasity

My friend told me that he and a girl took a shower together!?  I won't go into much detail, but apparently there was touching involved.  My friend reasures me that he did not go too far and that he stayed chaste the entire time. He even said, "I've read Heather's book, nothing I did was unchaste!"

So my question is:  was he staying chaste? And what should I do? Read more »

Before you marry someone, shouldn't you know whether or not you two are good together in bed? How can you marry someone if you don't know how the sex would be? Read more »

My problem is masturbating. I've tried to stop many times but can't.  How can I stop doing this?
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Do you have a dirty mind, too? Can't shake images, memories or impure motives? If you want change, there's more than just not looking at porn or stopping sexual activity. Find out how you can be filled with overflowing love for sex and the opposite sex. Read more »

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a little over a year, and though we have not had sex, I know there are parts of our relationship that aren't so pure. We want to be sexually pure in all ways, but are having difficulty. It seems really hard to introduce true chastity when we have already done things. How do I steer our relationship out of this bad direction?  Read more »

If you are looking for good answers to the question of ‘why wait?’ I want you to know I have been thinking about this for a long time, deciding what thoughts that I can offer to you. Read more »

As an intelligent person, you know that there is a lot you can do (physically) with the opposite sex, without actually having intercourse, right? To answer this question, you'll have to get in Paul's brain (sorry!). Read more »

Aren't they about the same thing? No way! Both are great words to learn but very different. Abstinence simply means saying "NO." Chastity is a virtue—not a habit. Read more »

My boyfriend likes porn and strip clubs. What can I do? Read more »

If the Church says we have to be married first in order to have sex then why is it not mentioned anywhere in the Bible about Adam and Eve being married since they had two kids - Cain and Abel? Read more »