Questions from Teens

Real-life questions from real-life teens. Got a burning question about chastity or sexuality or anything else? Ask the REAP Team! Your responses will be answered by a REAP Team staff member. Go to our contact us page and choose 'QNA' from the drop-down menu.

How do I remove a mask?

Dear Paul,

On your retreat, I realized that I wear masks all of the time. It is so bad that I am not even sure who I am any more. What advice can you give me to help me remove my masks? Read more »

My Parents Won't Take Me to Mass

Lately, my parents have been finding excuses to try to miss Mass and they call me selfish for wanting to go to Mass when they don't want to.   I've asked them to just drop me off, but they won’t.  I don’t’ know what to do.  In the 10 Commandments God tell us to keep the Sabbath holy, but he also tells us to honor our father & mother.  Am I in a state of sin because I can't go to Mass because I cannot drive?  Am I being selfish? Read more »

My Girlfriend Doesn't Believe She's Beautiful

There is a girl that I know, which happens to be my girlfriend, and I really think she is beautiful. She truly is. I'm not talking about just what is on the outside, but also what is on the inside. I am convinced that she is beautiful. The problem here is, she doesn't believe it. Obviously I've tried to tell her, & convince her. But she just doesn’t see it. So what do I do? How can I make her see that she really is beautiful? Please help, because she deserves to know!
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Why Is Lust a Sin? Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?

I just had a few quick questions.
 I understand that everything you do is to glorify the Lord, and I
understand that you shouldn't drink or smoke because your body is a
temple for the Holy Spirit, but I don't understand why lust is a sin.

  Also, I've heard two different theories of why bad things happen (to good people). One
 is that God doesn't make them happen but sometimes he allows them to, 
but then turns the situation into a learning experience or a blessing 
in some way.  The other theory is that he does make them happen but 
he has a reason for doing so and will turn it into a blessing somehow.

  Just some things that are on my mind.  I've been praying about them
a lot, and I am just very confused at the moment.

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Hypocrites

     Over this last year I have given my life to Jesus and am so happy about it! His love can never be replaced by anything or anyone and I am so excited to live out His plan for me and glorify Him in everything I do!  But here's a question I've been struggling with...

     When people say they love Jesus but still choose to drink or be sexually active outside of marriage, I know that's against God; but will they still go to Heaven since they go to church and believe in Jesus?  It seems like then they would be receiving the gift of eternity with God without any sacrifice... Read more »

My Relationship with God is at a Standstill

I'm at a standstill in my relationship with God; whenever I pray its like talking to a brick wall. I never feel any different, and I just need to know that someone will always be there for me. What can I do? Read more »

I'm Being Bullied - What Can I Do?

Dear REAP Team,

When I get bullied at school, I feel like I should yell or fight back, but I know that's not what God would want me to do. So what DO I do? Do I sit and take it?

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My Parents Don't Trust Me

Dear Rachel,

Recently I did something wrong and I got caught. Also, my parents have also found out that my friends have been making bad choices, too. My parents don’t trust me any more. What can I do?

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Help Me Quit Smoking

I tried my 1st cigarette about 5 days ago..and already have smoked 12. After I tried one..I was hooked. All I could/can think about is lighting up just ONE MORE TIME.  I do not want to become a smoker like my parents and brother. I feel absolutely stupid for getting myself addicted and I just can't make myself stop.  Please, any advice that could help me kick this habit? Read more »

How Do I Find a Christian Wife?

How do you find a good Christian wife nowadays that doesn't want sex before marriage?  
And how do you stop the act of masturbation? Read more »

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